A cup of grace

 

"You know that you are drinking a cloud; you are drinking the rain. The tea contains the whole universe.” ― Thích Nhất Hạnh, How to Eat

How much grace is there in a cup of tea? Or is it all grace? If all the universe is caught in my cup,  can it be otherwise? 

After two weeks of a Goldilocks diet (nothing too hot, nothing too cold, nothing with too much texture...or I suppose, too little) I was cleared last week to eat pretty much what I please. Despite my general inclinations toward staying firmly in Advent and not anticipating the upcoming solemnity of the Nativity, "Gloria in excelsis Deo!” was my refrain of the day.

This afternoon's cup of hot tea was glorious, definitely a grace of the day (maybe the week).  Hot,  sweet, fragrant, the cup warm in my hands, its steam swirled up like incense. There is strength in there, cloaked in caffeine's bracing bite. Like Isaiah’s parched desert steppe I come to life.

I think I like my grace like my tea: fragrant and bracing.

By Bread Alone

It is said that for the last years of her life Catherine of Siena subsisted solely on the Eucharist. Then there is Mary Magdalene, who legend says was fed daily on heavenly bread brought to her by an angel. So many saints it seemed, at least in the medieval period, didn’t need to eat, they were sustained by the Eucharist alone.

I had not given these pious legends much thought until recently, when for the last couple of weeks the only solid food I have eaten was the Eucharist (though not delivered by an angel). The rest of my diet has consisted of yogurt and mashed tubers of various sorts, with a bit of (mashed) squash thrown in for variety.  Baby food has more texture than most of the things I’ve been eating. I am definitely not a saint, as I am certain a saint would not be as grumpy about my limited diet as I am. 

Despite my grumpiness, I am grateful that yogurt and mashed yams and their ilk can hold body and soul together for a few weeks, grateful that I have food to put on the table at all, grateful that these limitations are short term, grateful that I can receive the Eucharist. Does the grumpiness give some texture to my gratitude? Perhaps. Perhaps when things are going smoothly I am less aware of what I am grateful for. 

The measure of my anxiety

 

The opening to at least one season of Downton Abbey shows the servants setting the table, using a ruler to precisely align each table setting. I am having a spot of surgery this afternoon (nothing serious, nothing major, I hasten to add) so have been trying to sidestep my anxiety by doing some prep for Thanksgiving dinner. Which we are hosting on Thursday.

I pulled out the china from the cabinet and brought up the extra silverware from the basement. I set out the serving dishes. I ironed the table runner feeling both old-fashioned, (ironing the linens?!?) and soothed. I find ironing very soothing, it's one of the things Parkinson's made so difficult and my ability to do it again a source of almost as much gratitude as folding my socks.

Was the table runner centered? I adjusted it and contemplated it from various angles. Maybe? Ah — the Downton Abbey scene flashing into memory — I have a ruler in the kitchen. Yes, in fact it was centered. Now if only I can stay centered!

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O Cecilia!

 Writing this reflection gave me a serious Simon & Garfunkel earworm last February!

I will give thanks to you, O Lord, with all my heart;
I will declare all your wondrous deeds.
I will be glad and exult in you;
I will sing praise to your name, Most High. — Psalm 9

On this day, we celebrate the memorial of St. Cecilia, so it is not surprising that a line in the opening verse of the psalm caught my eye: I will sing praise to your name. Cecilia is, perforce, the patron saint of music and musicians, of all who give voice to God’s praises in song.

Over and over in the psalms, we hear the imperative: Sing! Qui cantat, bis orat, said St. Augustine (perhaps). To sing is to pray twice. Music propels a text out of two dimensions. It pulls us into a space where beat and timbre, harmony and counterpoint can rouse us, can give shape to what is ineffable, unutterable.

I take a deep breath to begin the entrance hymn, and encounter God’s expansive grace, enabling me to be just a little bit more than who I was a moment before. I feel the pew shiver under my hands as the organ digs into a deeper register, my awe of the all-powerful, ever-living God literally palpable. I hear the woman behind me in line for communion break into a soprano descant and am reminded that in prayer, as in music, we are called to be one Body, one Word, our differences intricately woven into a stronger and more beautiful whole.

St. John of the Cross called prayer the breathing of God in the soul and of the soul in God. So, whenever I sing in prayer, the living Word of God breathes within me, and I, alive with that Word, breathe within God.

— From Give Us This Day, November 2025

Light from light

I am giving a day of retreat at a retreat house in Bryn Mawr on the first Tuesday of Advent:

“God comes to us in light and in shadow. Aflame in a bush calling out to Moses, brilliant in the star that led wise men to a savior in a manger, and radiant in Christ transfigured on a mountain top. But as poet Rainer Marie Rilke noted, God can also be found deep in the darkness. A billowing cloud led Israel through the desert, the Holy Spirit overshadowed Mary so that she might bear the Messiah, a voice from a cloud spoke of a beloved Son. As we await the celebration of the birth of the Light of the World, join us as we pray with these luminous images.”

I spent today sketching the texts for the four reflections that will frame the day and working out the discussion/sharing sessions that (I hope) will draw people into conversation with each other and the material. It was such a grace to have an entire day to devote to writing and thinking, to work at an unforced pace. This is what I am looking forward to in the next phase of my life!

And I learned how to use my phone to capture what I am thinking aloud and transcribe it for me. I had been using Dragon dictation on a PC when I didn’t want to type, but it’s nice to be able to not have to mov between devices (the phone syncs automatically to the laptop).